Thursday 1 December 2011

No Shame in that-sexologist


Whenever we suffer an asthma attack or a pulmonary infection, we move immediately to a breast doctor. If our digestive system becomes dysfunctional, we do not hesitate to go to a gastroenterologist. For oily skin, dermatologists are consulted as soon as possible.

But whenever a person suffers from a sexual problem, which he can not enjoy sex he can not satisfy your partner, or he avoids going to a sexologist, or do not know about the existence of such a specialist who is trained in treating sexual problems. If a woman is suffering pain during intercourse, or finds himself unable to reach orgasm, it is, at best, can visit her gynecologist, but I never would think of consulting a sexologist. Here are a few situations / conditions under which you should consult a sexologist.


nWhen you may find that he or she has no desire or wish to change the low desire for sex. "Modified desire" means a person who is experiencing intense and recurrent sexual urges, fantasies or behaviors that involve unusual objects, activities or situations and cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational and other areas.


- When sexual desire and need in a marriage partner does not meet most of the time.
- When a person is or is not able to "reach" or "maintain" an erection in spite of appropriate sexual dysfunction Erectile ie of stimulation.
- When a person can not enter and perform intercourse during sexual intercourse with a partner are ready.
- When a man ejaculates before his own expectations or his partner is constantly on a regular basis, that is, premature ejaculation, resulting in a complete lack of sexual satisfaction for both partners.
- When a person takes too long to ejaculate, or can not ejaculate, in spite of proper sexual intercourse with a willing partner, that is retarded ejaculation.
- When he or she has a disturbing doubts and concerns related to their sexual desire, arousal, ability, endurance, performance, or even satisfaction.

- Every time he or she has any doubts or concerns about the anatomy and functioning of their own sex or  partner agencies.
- When he or she has to do with troubling questions concerning their own role or partner in sexual intercourse. For example, someone must take the initiative, what is the correct technique and duration of foreplay, what should be the correct frequency of intercourse, when and where the communication should or should not be done, which must be an active partner, etc.
- When he or she is obsessively concerned with sexual feelings, desires and urges that it affects their ability to meet basic human duty.
- When he or she calls to engage in deviant sexual behavior, such as sado-masochism, bestiality, etc.
- When intercourse is not happening, or hurt, in spite of their mutual desire, cooperation and participation.
- When a woman is unable to achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse with a loving partner, in spite of their mutual cooperation and active participation.
- For proper sex education session prior to their marriage, where all the facts and myths associated with intercourse are addressed.
- When a person is confused about his sexual orientation and preference.
- When a person is struggling with guilt and shame in relation to gender, and can not enjoy the experience.
- When a man had unprotected sex with a partner uncommitted and may be pregnant or could become infected with venereal disease.